Showing posts with label negativity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label negativity. Show all posts

Saturday, June 22, 2019

4 Surprising Things That Are Holding You Back From Wealth


By Dr. Steve G. Jones, creator of Total Money Magnetism 
Does it sometimes feel like other people in your life just have it easy?
You see them getting great jobs and promotions, earning big money, or not having to work hard for what they get… while you are constantly STRUGGLING?
Do you sometimes think to yourself…
‘Why can’t I have what THEY have? Is there something I should have done differently?’
Well, let me tell you right now it’s not that they’re ‘better than you’.
It’s not that they’re smarter than you, luckier than you, or they deserve it more. 
As a hypnotherapist and self-made millionaire, I see clients every day who are struggling with one (or more) of 4 things… which make it almost impossible to get the wealth and the life you want.
Here’s #1…
#1: Fear of failure
‘But what if I FAIL?’ ‘What if I’m not GOOD enough?’ ‘What will I LOSE?’
 ‘What will people think of me?’
We are creatures of habit, and our subconscious minds are great at keeping us in the same routines or behavior patterns.
Why?
Because there is a certain safety about doing the same things we’ve done before.
Basically, it’s a survival mechanism, which causes us to feel nervous, uncomfortable, or fearful when we even think about doing something different.
And this goes double when it comes to big things like making a career change, starting a business, or moving somewhere new.
We fear what will happen if we FAIL, and our minds are great at coming up with all sorts of inventive negative scenarios.
But the important thing to remember is: If you continue to do exactly the same things, you will continue to get exactly the same results.
Creating wealth doesn’t have to be ‘hard’. But it does involve stepping out of your comfort zone.
#2: Fear of success
‘But what will happen if I get rich?’ ‘What will happen if I get that promotion?’ ‘What will happen if I buy that bigger house?’
‘Will people treat me differently?’
‘Will I become someone ELSE?’
Yes, fear of success is also a very real thing.
Again, this comes down to our natural resistance to change.
For instance, although you may WANT to land that dream job, there is a tiny part of your mind that is stressing out about what will come with that new job…
…a new office, new responsibilities, new people to report to and higher expectations.
And, underneath it all, you may not feel that you are truly deserving of achieving this kind of success and becoming wealthy, especially if others in your life are struggling.
When in actual fact, you are just as worthy and deserving as anyone else!
#3: You’re suffering from the toxic cash-repelling ‘Scarcity Virus’…
‘I’m just not that lucky’ ‘I don’t have what it takes’ ‘There isn’t enough money to go around’
If you’re frustrated with where things are at in your life and feeling helpless about your finances right now, chances are you are suffering from the toxic, cash-repelling ‘Scarcity Virus’.  
Basically, you have some serious inner hang-ups about money and what it means to be rich… and whether you actually have what it takes to BE rich.
In fact, majority of the population suffer from this same problem.
You might think you’d love to be wealthy, land that dream job, or live that luxurious lifestyle, but inside your mind is telling you something different.
Because on some level, you’ve learned that “money is BAD”. Or, that you’re not “good enough” to ever be rich.
Maybe you or your family have struggled with money in the past, and therefore you’ve come to associate wealth with feelings like fear, jealously, or resentment.
And even as an adult, these feelings have remained rooted within you and can be extremely hard to shake.
#4: You’ve been following the wrong footsteps all along
‘But my father told me that getting rich is about hard work and saving’ ‘The more hours I work, the closer I’ll get to success’
The fourth crucial thing I see holding people back from wealth is that they have been listening to advice from the wrong people their whole lives.
Instead of looking for successful mentors who can teach them the real steps to success, they follow the guidance of people who may actually be struggling themselves.
For instance, parents, siblings, or friends who provide well-meaning yet unhelpful comments such as, “You just have to work HARDER”.
As I can personally testify to, building your income really isn’t about working double the number of hours and putting in double the effort.
It’s about tuning your mind into what really WORKS.

Are You Ready To Shape Your Brain Into The Brain Of A MILLIONAIRE?

Sometimes the cash-repelling mindsets and behaviors above are so ingrained that it can be difficult to overcome them. They can sabotage you without even realizing it.
However, I’ve created a method that will allow you to effortlessly overcome these mental blocks and start manifesting wealth like a self-made millionaire (in just a few minutes per day!)
Simply follow this link to find out more:
Dr. Steve G. Jones
As a world-renowned Clinical Hypnotherapist and self-made millionaire, Dr. Steve G. Jones understands the powerful relationship between the brain and money. In order for people to experience financial success, they first need to remove any barriers to wealth within their subconscious minds. Using hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming, Dr. Steve helps people to remove these barriers so that they can take their lives to the next level of success.

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

How You Can Be Successful at Managing Negativity : Number 14 is going to make you Smile


Negative influence can be found almost all around. There are people who complain that life is unjust, have unhealthy habits, and pull you down through their way of being.

The emotions and behaviors that these people scatter can have a negative influence on you, so avoiding being around these negative sources is a necessary condition if you want to be a person who usually thinks positive.

Many of us can find that we are easily affected by some negative situations, with the only exception being the people who have learned to cope with such a situation. Below you will find 14 ways on how you can be successful at managing negativity. Choose what suits you and remember to apply these principles to your life:

1. Know when to say no


It is very important to know when to say "yes" and when to say "no". These two simple answers can lock or open doors, place you in a pleasant or unpleasant situation. Positive people focus their priorities and if they see that something is not serving those goals, they try to reduce them as much as possible.

2. Create within a basis for happiness


People who have a positive state do not base their happiness on external stimuli. They realize that if they do that, when the external situation changes, their condition will change as well. Thus, they choose to focus their attention on internal sources of positive energy.

3. Devote a portion of time to relaxation


Instead of trying to do it all, positive people realize that there are times when it is necessary to slow down the pace, temporarily leave aside goals in order to allow themselves to relax. By doing so they avoid exhaustion, which would do nothing but draw unwanted consequences.

 4. Practice positive thinking consciously


Thoughts influence the things we do, so negative thinking will not bring you much in your life. When you think positively, you choose not to believe the apologies that arise in your mind and which hinder you in what you have to do. Positive people learn from negative situations, choose to turn their attention to what works and do more of things to help them complete the projects they are involved in.

5. Look inside for reasons to go further


Never let negativity become a normal way of thinking. There will be many people who will try to overlay the pattern of their lives directly on you. All that matters is always remembering how important you are on this road and going forward. Negative thoughts are temporary obstacles most of the time, and do not have a solid foundation.

 
6. Take responsibility


Positive people always take responsibility for what is happening in their lives. When they get a good result, they notice what they have done and try to do more. This introspection process also occurs in the case of less good events. They realize they play an active role in what they get in their lives, following their actions and thoughts. A positive person will never blame external factors and will look inside to identify what they have contributed to the situation they are in.
By doing so, they go through an experience that helps them continually improve rather than feel frustrated by things beyond their control.

7. Avoid spending time with negative people


The people you surround with will have an impact on how you think and act. If you spend your time around people who think positively, you are more likely to be happy and have a solution-oriented thinking. On the other hand, if you keep around people who are accustomed to complain and observe more and more what is not working, it is a pretty big risk that those things will leave a mark on how you think.

8. Learn to control your thoughts


A mind can easily be influenced by negative thoughts that appear suddenly. Positive people realize that when they do not control the thoughts that go through their minds, they risk losing control over what they do and say. That is why they practice conscious control of the mind, for example through meditation.

9. Exercise regularly


Physical training is associated with the release of endorphins, which are directly responsible for the well-being we have. Taking care of your body, you will feel a low level of stress and a good mood. On the other hand, if you ignore the needs of your body, you will begin to feel the negative consequences soon enough.

 10. Accept a situation that did not go as you expected


Positive people recognize the situations in which things did not go according to their expectations and realize that they have much to learn from it. Even if they get down, they work hard to get up instead of giving up. Even if a failure brings negative emotions, they realize that emotions will not last and will eventually pass.

11. Be convinced that there is always a solution


Sometimes in life you are hit by unforeseen events. Sometimes, at these times, we tend to doubt our ability to solve those problems. The point here is that there is always a way to get over an obstacle and positive people always have this in mind.

12. Avoid spending impulsively


Nowadays, offers and discounts are constantly trying to catch your attention, so it can be quite easy to lose yourself in shopping frenzy. Although shopping can make you feel good right away, from a long-term perspective, it is an unhealthy habit that positive people are trying to avoid. Better invest in experiences to discover the world and create interesting memories.

13.Spend time in nature 

When you sit in nature, your mind clears and your body relaxes. Positive people devote part of their day to go out and admire the beauty of nature. It's a great way to recharge your batteries.


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14. Do not seek approval from anyone


If you let other people's opinions block you, then you may find it hard to get things done and think positively. Many people are afraid of receiving validation from others and are afraid of criticism. Positive people think and act the opposite. They  transforms the lack of approval into feedback that helps them to improve, and if what they are told is not a foundation that stands, they do not let that stop them from what they want to do.


sources: marcandangel.com, lifehack.org and lifehacker.com

 
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