4 Surprising Things That Are Holding You Back From Wealth

By Dr. Steve G. Jones, creator of Total Money Magnetism 

Does it sometimes feel like other people in your life just have it easy?

You see them getting great jobs and promotions, earning big money, or not having to work hard for what they get… while you are constantly STRUGGLING?

Do you sometimes think to yourself…

‘Why can’t I have what THEY have? Is there something I should have done differently?’

Well, let me tell you right now it’s not that they’re ‘better than you’.

It’s not that they’re smarter than you, luckier than you, or they deserve it more. 

As a hypnotherapist and self-made millionaire, I see clients every day who are struggling with one (or more) of 4 things… which make it almost impossible to get the wealth and the life you want.

Here’s #1…

#1: Fear of failure

‘But what if I FAIL?’ ‘What if I’m not GOOD enough?’ ‘What will I LOSE?’

 ‘What will people think of me?’

We are creatures of habit, and our subconscious minds are great at keeping us in the same routines or behavior patterns.

Why?

Because there is a certain safety about doing the same things we’ve done before.

Basically, it’s a survival mechanism, which causes us to feel nervous, uncomfortable, or fearful when we even think about doing something different.

And this goes double when it comes to big things like making a career change, starting a business, or moving somewhere new.

We fear what will happen if we FAIL, and our minds are great at coming up with all sorts of inventive negative scenarios.

But the important thing to remember is: If you continue to do exactly the same things, you will continue to get exactly the same results.

Creating wealth doesn’t have to be ‘hard’. But it does involve stepping out of your comfort zone.

#2: Fear of success

‘But what will happen if I get rich?’ ‘What will happen if I get that promotion?’ ‘What will happen if I buy that bigger house?’

‘Will people treat me differently?’

‘Will I become someone ELSE?’

Yes, fear of success is also a very real thing.

Again, this comes down to our natural resistance to change.

For instance, although you may WANT to land that dream job, there is a tiny part of your mind that is stressing out about what will come with that new job…

…a new office, new responsibilities, new people to report to and higher expectations.

And, underneath it all, you may not feel that you are truly deserving of achieving this kind of success and becoming wealthy, especially if others in your life are struggling.

When in actual fact, you are just as worthy and deserving as anyone else!

#3: You’re suffering from the toxic cash-repelling ‘Scarcity Virus’…

‘I’m just not that lucky’ ‘I don’t have what it takes’ ‘There isn’t enough money to go around’

If you’re frustrated with where things are at in your life and feeling helpless about your finances right now, chances are you are suffering from the toxic, cash-repelling ‘Scarcity Virus’.  

Basically, you have some serious inner hang-ups about money and what it means to be rich… and whether you actually have what it takes to BE rich.

In fact, majority of the population suffer from this same problem.

You might think you’d love to be wealthy, land that dream job, or live that luxurious lifestyle, but inside your mind is telling you something different.

Because on some level, you’ve learned that “money is BAD”. Or, that you’re not “good enough” to ever be rich.

Maybe you or your family have struggled with money in the past, and therefore you’ve come to associate wealth with feelings like fear, jealously, or resentment.

And even as an adult, these feelings have remained rooted within you and can be extremely hard to shake.

#4: You’ve been following the wrong footsteps all along

‘But my father told me that getting rich is about hard work and saving’ ‘The more hours I work, the closer I’ll get to success’

The fourth crucial thing I see holding people back from wealth is that they have been listening to advice from the wrong people their whole lives.

Instead of looking for successful mentors who can teach them the real steps to success, they follow the guidance of people who may actually be struggling themselves.

For instance, parents, siblings, or friends who provide well-meaning yet unhelpful comments such as, “You just have to work HARDER”.

As I can personally testify to, building your income really isn’t about working double the number of hours and putting in double the effort.

It’s about tuning your mind into what really WORKS.

Are You Ready To Shape Your Brain Into The Brain Of A MILLIONAIRE?

Sometimes the cash-repelling mindsets and behaviors above are so ingrained that it can be difficult to overcome them. They can sabotage you without even realizing it.

However, I’ve created a method that will allow you to effortlessly overcome these mental blocks and start manifesting wealth like a self-made millionaire (in just a few minutes per day!)

Simply follow this link to find out more:

Discover The Six-Step Secret To Developing A Millionaire Brain

Dr. Steve G. Jones

As a world-renowned Clinical Hypnotherapist and self-made millionaire, Dr. Steve G. Jones understands the powerful relationship between the brain and money. In order for people to experience financial success, they first need to remove any barriers to wealth within their subconscious minds. Using hypnosis and neuro-linguistic programming, Dr. Steve helps people to remove these barriers so that they can take their lives to the next level of success.

14 Ways To Seduce A Man & Make Him Crazy For You. Proven Ways To Make Him Want You Bad

Seducing a man can seem like an insurmountable obstacle, especially if you're not familiar with good flirting and seduction techniques. These techniques will teach you everything you need to know about seducing a guy.

Learning to be sexy and getting a man interested is usually not an overnight event, but a process that involves a lot of fun back and forth.

Follow these 14 easy and compelling ways on how to seduce a man and get him thinking of nothing but you.

1.     Make eye contact with him frequently.

One of the things that a man is most likely going to notice about you first is your eyes. Many guys like to gaze into a woman's eyes as soon as they see her even before they check out her cleavage or size up the rest of her fake hair.

The eyes can communicate sexiness, mysteriousness and desire without a single word. Use this to your advantage by seducing him with frequent contact. Make sure to look directly at him when he's talking and at other times when neither of you are speaking and hold your gaze for a second or two longer than is comfortable.

This may be tough at first, but the more you do it, the easier it will become

2.     Wear clothes that flatter your figure.

While many men are attracted to provocative clothing as a whole, you can make more of an impact by dressing to flatter your figure as opposed to dressing just to show skin.

Whether you're curvy or athletic, wearing clothes that look good on you, no matter how much skin they show or don't show is a great way to get a guy's attention.

If you have a great rack, play it up by wearing a dress or top that shows some of your cleavage. If your legs are your best feature, wear a short skirt with heels. Don't be afraid to leave something to the imagination with what you wear when seducing him. Showing off all your best assets all at once can give the impression that you're sweaty instead of playful.

 If you're showing off your legs, make sure you're wearing a more conservative top and vice versa.

3.     Smile.

Guys love it when a woman smiles. A genuine smile catches a man's attention and helps him to zero in on you and only you.

This is especially effective if you're smiling at something he said or did. Fake smiles don't count most guys can spot those from a mile away.

Flash your pearly whites when talking to him and show him that you enjoy his company and an all around happy person.

4.     Ask more personal questions that offer intimate information.

Talking about the weather or whose team has the best quarterback is only going to get you so far with a man. When learning how to seduce a man, try asking more personal questions and offer more intimate information in return when you're speaking with him.

For example, you might ask him what his all time favorite bedroom move was or what turns him on more than anything else( if you can work it into the conversation naturally).

Tell him personal things about you like how much you dig dancing with a guy or what do you like most about a man's body.

If you want to take things up a gear then you may want to try some other dirty questions.

5.     Use your body language to convey your interest.

Your body language can show a man that you're interested in him more so than anything you say. Use your body language to your advantage when seducing him and let him know in no uncertain terms that you're into him. In addition to making eye contact and smiling, you can face him when you're speaking with him or you can lean towards him just a little. If he's into you too. He may start to mirror your body language and gravitate towards you in the same way.

6.     Don't throw yourself at him.

Most guys are turned off by women they see as desperate. Throwing yourself at him and showing an inappropriate level of interest, obsessive instead of playful can have the opposite effect of seducing. It may even drive him away before you have the chance to do anything else.

Instead of being all over him, show your interest in him in a flirtatious way without being overbearing.

7.     Touch him often.

When seducing a guy, make sure to touch him frequently in a subtle way. For example, you could lay your hand on his knee briefly while he's talking or lean over to whisper in his ear while gently brushing your lips against it. This is one of the most powerful tools you can use when figuring out how to seduce a guy. Make sure when you touch him it seems accidental or slight. If you're touching him constantly or doing it in a non natural way he may get turned off or feel like you're smothering him.

8.     Get him alone.

If you're hanging out with friends make a point to get him alone for a few minutes or more. Suggest going to the bar to order another drink together or challenge him to a one on one game of pool.

Getting him alone not only gives you more freedom to flirt and seduce him, but will also help get him in the right frame of mind for anything you have planned next without being distracted.

9.     Send sexy snapchats or text messages.

If you have each other's numbers, you can make it easier to seduce a guy with sexy text messages or snaps. Create your own private little world with him by flirting with him via text or sending him provocative but not too revealing photos via an app like Snapchat so that the photos get deleted, text him and let him know you're thinking about him or send him a photo of you chilling by the pool. This can help spark his imagination and get him going in the right direction.

10. Don't be afraid to get awkward.

Awkward silences and situations can be one of the most interesting and effective ways to stir up sexual tension with a guy. Instead of trying to fill an odd silence let a few seconds pass in order to create a little bit of sexy nervousness when seducing him. You can also create awkward situations by brushing up against him when walking by or accidentally dropping something in front of him and bending over to pick it up.

11.Have fun without him.

While this may sound counterintuitive, having fun without him can have a positive impact on his attraction to you. When you show a guy that you're independent and able to have a great time when he's not around, it says 2 things you don't need him to enjoy yourself and your desirable to others.

There's more to seducing a man that just being super sexy around him. It's also making him think about you when you're not with him.

12.Make him work a little but not too much.

Most women know that guys like to chase a woman. However, they don't want the goal to feel impossible to reach.

Many guys respond well when there's enough space to chase a girl while still feeling like the end is within reach. It's okay to make him work a bit for your time or affection when seducing a man to increase his anticipation but don't make him bend over backwards for little in return. Doing so, is more likely to turn him off than on.

13. Show confidence not insecurities.

Men love confidence in a woman. Everyone is insecure about themselves to some degree but showing him this side of you can have a negative impact on his attraction level towards you. So try not to talk about how much you hate your butt or ask him whether your outfit makes you look fat.

14.Be positive and don't forget to laugh.

Along with showing him confidence instead of insecurity, you want to keep your conversation with him positive. Avoid bitching about work or the friend that backstab you last weekend. Many guys are more interested in glass half full girls and may steer clear of women who bring them down with their negativity.

If you feel like you want to easily learn exactly what to do to become irresistible to him check THIS out .