A wise man, Mooji, is asked, "What do you have to say to
those who are looking for a life partner?" Answer: "you do not know
how lucky you are".
Life will give you such a beautiful opportunity for the
moment. Because people who do not have a partner often consider themselves
alone and believe that their lives will always be so. And then their mind comes
into play and says, "Yeah, and you have to move fast."
We often have forced relationships that the ego hangs on,
sometimes we are alone, and if not, then we are looking for a partner.
I would tell people to use their time well, to find time to focus on themselves, the truth. To become self-confident,
because when the time comes and life brings somebody right, it is a gift. You
do not have to start looking, somebody will come unexpectedly, and you will
recognize inside yourself. You will be happy to meet someone like you. Without
having to confront it with the list of qualities you have already made, someone
who will be a beautiful surprise for you.
You will come with the fullness of your being, how beautiful!
In the meantime, if it does not, do not wait! Use all your
energy to learn the truth. Do not get into a relationship from a disadvantaged
position, do not get desperate. Nobody likes desperate people and you will be abused.
If you are desperate, you are badly led by your own mind. So, use your solitude
to drive out despair and be anchored in the truth.
So, at the right time, life brings you the right one, someone
who does not disturb the peace of your world, someone who encourages and
intensifies it.
And you do not have to be Buddha or who knows what master to
have a partner, but you are a person who knows his priorities and knows the
center of his being.
