Seducing a man can seem like an insurmountable obstacle,
especially if you're not familiar with good flirting and seduction techniques.
These techniques will teach you everything you need to know about seducing a
guy.
Learning to be sexy and getting a man interested is usually
not an overnight event, but a process that involves a lot of fun back and
forth.
Follow these 14 easy and compelling ways on how to seduce a
man and get him thinking of nothing but you.
1.
Make eye contact with him frequently.
One of the things that a man is most likely going to notice
about you first is your eyes. Many guys like to gaze into a woman's eyes as
soon as they see her even before they check out her cleavage or size up the
rest of her fake hair.
The eyes can communicate sexiness, mysteriousness and desire
without a single word. Use this to your advantage by seducing him with frequent
contact. Make sure to look directly at him when he's talking and at other times
when neither of you are speaking and hold your gaze for a second or two longer
than is comfortable.
This may be tough at first, but the more you do it, the
easier it will become
2.
Wear clothes that flatter your figure.
While many men are attracted to provocative clothing as a
whole, you can make more of an impact by dressing to flatter your figure as
opposed to dressing just to show skin.
Whether you're curvy or athletic, wearing clothes that look
good on you, no matter how much skin they show or don't show is a great way to
get a guy's attention.
If you have a great rack, play it up by wearing a dress or
top that shows some of your cleavage. If your legs are your best feature, wear
a short skirt with heels. Don't be afraid to leave something to the imagination
with what you wear when seducing him. Showing off all your best assets all at
once can give the impression that you're sweaty instead of playful.
If you're showing off
your legs, make sure you're wearing a more conservative top and vice versa.
3.
Smile.
Guys love it when a woman smiles. A genuine smile catches a
man's attention and helps him to zero in on you and only you.
This is especially effective if you're smiling at something
he said or did. Fake smiles don't count most guys can spot those from a mile
away.
Flash your pearly whites when talking to him and show him
that you enjoy his company and an all around happy person.
4.
Ask more personal questions that offer intimate information.
Talking about the weather or whose team has the best
quarterback is only going to get you so far with a man. When learning how to
seduce a man, try asking more personal questions and offer more intimate
information in return when you're speaking with him.
For example, you might ask him what his all time favorite
bedroom move was or what turns him on more than anything else( if you can work
it into the conversation naturally).
Tell him personal things about you like how much you dig
dancing with a guy or what do you like most about a man's body.
If you want to take things up a gear then you may want to try
some other dirty questions.
5.
Use your body language to convey your interest.
Your body language can show a man that you're interested in
him more so than anything you say. Use your body language to your advantage
when seducing him and let him know in no uncertain terms that you're into him.
In addition to making eye contact and smiling, you can face him when you're
speaking with him or you can lean towards him just a little. If he's into you
too. He may start to mirror your body language and gravitate towards you in the
same way.
6.
Don't throw yourself at him.
Most guys are turned off by women they see as desperate. Throwing
yourself at him and showing an inappropriate level of interest, obsessive
instead of playful can have the opposite effect of seducing. It may even drive
him away before you have the chance to do anything else.
Instead of being all over him, show your interest in him in a
flirtatious way without being overbearing.
7.
Touch him often.
When seducing a guy, make sure to touch him frequently in a
subtle way. For example, you could lay your hand on his knee briefly while he's
talking or lean over to whisper in his ear while gently brushing your lips
against it. This is one of the most powerful tools you can use when figuring
out how to seduce a guy. Make sure when you touch him it seems accidental or
slight. If you're touching him constantly or doing it in a non natural way he
may get turned off or feel like you're smothering him.
8.
Get him alone.
If you're hanging out with friends make a point to get him
alone for a few minutes or more. Suggest going to the bar to order another
drink together or challenge him to a one on one game of pool.
Getting him alone not only gives you more freedom to flirt
and seduce him, but will also help get him in the right frame of mind for
anything you have planned next without being distracted.
9.
Send sexy snapchats or text messages.
If you have each other's numbers, you can make it easier to
seduce a guy with sexy text messages or snaps. Create your own private little
world with him by flirting with him via text or sending him provocative but not
too revealing photos via an app like Snapchat so that the photos get deleted,
text him and let him know you're thinking about him or send him a photo of you
chilling by the pool. This can help spark his imagination and get him going in
the right direction.
10. Don't be afraid to get awkward.
Awkward silences and situations can be one of the most
interesting and effective ways to stir up sexual tension with a guy. Instead of
trying to fill an odd silence let a few seconds pass in order to create a
little bit of sexy nervousness when seducing him. You can also create awkward
situations by brushing up against him when walking by or accidentally dropping
something in front of him and bending over to pick it up.
11.Have fun without him.
While this may sound counterintuitive, having fun without him
can have a positive impact on his attraction to you. When you show a guy that
you're independent and able to have a great time when he's not around, it says
2 things you don't need him to enjoy yourself and your desirable to others.
There's more to seducing a man that just being super sexy
around him. It's also making him think about you when you're not with him.
12.Make him work a little but not too much.
Most women know that guys like to chase a woman. However,
they don't want the goal to feel impossible to reach.
Many guys respond well when there's enough space to chase a
girl while still feeling like the end is within reach. It's okay to make him
work a bit for your time or affection when seducing a man to increase his
anticipation but don't make him bend over backwards for little in return. Doing
so, is more likely to turn him off than on.
13. Show confidence not insecurities.
Men love confidence in a woman. Everyone is insecure about
themselves to some degree but showing him this side of you can have a negative
impact on his attraction level towards you. So try not to talk about how much
you hate your butt or ask him whether your outfit makes you look fat.
14.Be positive and don't forget to
laugh.
Along with showing him confidence instead of insecurity, you
want to keep your conversation with him positive. Avoid bitching about work or
the friend that backstab you last weekend. Many guys are more interested in
glass half full girls and may steer clear of women who bring them down with
their negativity.
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